Anchor, Actress, Singer, Dancer, and Dreamer. That’s Shibani Dandekar in 140 characters for you.
“You only accept the love you think you deserve.” – Perks of Being a Wallflower.
Do you also feel the urge to ask this question, “why girls fall for bad boys?”
To get you the answer to so many similar questions like why girls like mean guys, here we are with this blog on why do girls like bad guys.
Women, for eons now, have always been attracted towards the ‘bad boys,’ the ‘not-so-nice men’ who make their toes tingle and their hearts skip beats.
What is it that makes these ‘bad boys’ tick irresistible?
Yes, they sure can charm the daylights out of everyone around them, from your gardener to your cat, but there is more to them than just witty repartee.
Bad boys are the forbidden fruit that the nervous Eve in us runs after. They are unavailable and unachievable.
A text from them that reads, “Hey sugar! Free tonight?” makes us feel like Christmas has come early!
We are denied so much that what we eventually do receive feels like a lot!
Has this ever happened to you too? Is this sudden rush of dopamine the reason why girls like bad boys?
These bad boys hit upon that one sensitive and vulnerable side that we all try to hide behind our strong, independent, and happy-go-lucky exterior.
It is only natural to have moments of self-doubt but letting those moments tell us that we don’t deserve better is what causes us, girls, to migrate towards bad boys like toddlers in an ice cream store.
And finally, the thrill of it! Oh, who can deny the surge of adrenaline as you sneak out of your balcony at 3 in the night straight into the arms… err… front seat of a bad boy?
They are the rule-breakers and the risk-takers. They send us into a tizzy by just being around us! They are everything that our moms and crores of listicles have told us not to do.
The forbidden territory that we shouldn’t tread upon. When there are loud, agonizing “NO” alarms ringing from every corner, how can the wolf resist the sheep?
Oh, wait! In this case, it’s the other way round if these bad boys are to be the big bad wolves!
Now ask me again why girls like bad guys, and I’m hitting you with this clear answer!
So listen up, girls! Bad boys will come and go, and hearts will break and heal! We discover in ourselves in this process that will make us the women we are tomorrow!
Go with the flow and make good choices. Just wait and see where life takes you, and till then, enjoy the ride!
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