8 Reasons Why It’s So Much Better To Date Grown Up Men Than Boys

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They say “men will be men”… True. But then certain things clearly demarcate the grown up men from the still childish boys when it comes to dating and relationships. It is a well-known belief that grown men make great beaus compared to the younger guys, but why is that so? There are certainly some strong reasons that ground this belief.

1. Men: You’ll get treats in fancy restaurants.

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Boys: Don’t be surprised if he takes you to McDonald’s the fifth time in a row. He’s loving it…

Men know the best way to make their ladies feel special and relaxed, so they feel more loving, genuine, and accomplished. That’s the topmost reason why women prefer dating a grown man.

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2. Men: They dress so well.

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Boys: If they could, they would even go for a job interview in their boxers.

Men have a specific attraction that captures younger women’s eyes. Women like the way the grown up man presents himself which isn’t like a young man.

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3. Men: They are clean and tidy and organized.

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Boys: Every time you visit his ‘pad,’ you will be in a fix whether to sit on his pile of dirty clothes on the bed or the old ‘take away’ food cartons strewn all over the rest of the room.

Men know how to stay clean and hygienic, whereas boys expect you to take care of them like they’re your son. 

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4. Men: It’s always fun to meet his equally amusing and chivalrous friends sometimes for drinks.

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Boys: Your dates will be constantly bombarded by the esteemed (read unwelcomed) presence of his friends and even canceled way too many times for the sake of ‘Boys’ Game Night’!

Boys often miss the standard etiquettes that grown up men have. Men will never put you in a position where you’ll keep on wondering whether they wanna marry you or his Lil boy gang. 

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5. Men: They are thoughtful and will keep you up on your feet with sweet surprises and gifts.

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Boys: Don’t ever expect them to get you anything. If he can ever save to buy something, he’ll better spend it all on ping-pong balls or something not so useful maybe.

Men will make constant efforts to make their lady feel special, and once their lady demands something, he’ll do anything to fulfill that. Don’t even expect boys to do the same; they are too immature to understand your needs.

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6. Men: They are assertive and know what they want from a relationship and how to convey that.

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Boys: All they do is fumble, make dumb mistakes, and freak out every time you say ‘we need to talk.’

Grown up mens are strong-headed and know when and how to react to certain things. Boys can never provide physical and psychological comfort stimulation to their women, which is among the essential components of any relationship.

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7. Men: They are financially stable and money-wise.

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Boys: Expect them without a speck of doubt to spend the whole paycheck in the first week itself on booze, parties, and holiday trips with their buddies!

When you’re dating a grown man, he’ll pay whenever he takes you out, even though you snatch the check and say multiple times that it’s your chance to spend. Boys, don’t reach for the check and sulk if you ask him to share the bill with you. Men are much more mature and secure financially than kiddie boys. 

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8. Men: They are not afraid of commitment and will be there with you if they honestly respect you and want to be with you.

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Boys: Commitment?!! Just say the word and see them run faster than the Road Runner.

Boys escape with the first hint of commitment because it’s so much pressure for them, and they don’t want to be tied down, while men stay with you because he’s committed to you and the relationship, and wants to see it progress.

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Women mature at a faster rate than men, which is widely known. That is why younger men, who are also at an age where they want to do new experiences and travel before committing to a long-term relationship, are not the best companions for them.

Women are drawn towards grown up men because they have a distinct charm. To begin with, it can be seen in their appearance: glorious wrinkles across their eyes, salt and pepper hair, and even light chest hair on some of them.

They also have their own style of presentation, and women like the way they behave, laugh, and interact. This article sums up why dating a grown man is always better than dating a boy. 

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