You have a major crush on one of the guy from your group. You can’t help it but be totally bowled over whenever he smiles. He is funny, smart, nice and oh so yummy! And right when you decided that tonight you would let all the cats out of your heart’s bag and tell him how you feel about him, he takes a long burp after gulping down the coke he snatched from your hand and then punches you calling you bro!! Gosh!
If this is the story of your life too, you are already one of the guys and only a step away from being ‘friend zoned’. Yes that’s right. As opposed to the popular belief, girls can get friend zoned too. So, if you don’t want to be called ‘dude’ or ‘bro’ by him even once more and let him know you are a girl and the girl who can very well be his romantic partner, do these 8 things. Right now!
1. Look for the brighter side
Being the only girl in your guys group often leads to the guys coming to you for sharing their deepest secrets which they know the other guys won’t understand. So, if you too enjoy this disposition, you can use this information to allure your unsuspecting friend that you have a crush on.
2. Give up being dude-astic
Belching, burping and farting could be satisfying but are in no way sexy; not even to the guys who feel it’s completely all right to do it in front of you. So, give these up and start thinking seriously about those lady-like behaviours your mother so begged you to adopt.
Of course, if you do have to, excuse yourself for the washroom and do your aching belly a favour. Or let the guys keep guessing who the air of mystery belongs to! (JK) 😉
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3. Reach out to the girls
Seek the help and advice of your girlfriends or if you don’t have any… better make some now! Hanging out with the girls can save you from feeling hopelessly unattractive besides helping you groom up. Plus, they are your best bet to teach you the right tactics to win a guy’s attention and his heart romantically.
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4. Explore the femme world
Take a day off from your routine hangouts with the guys and go shopping for some girly stuff. Paint your nails, braid your hair fancily or try out some new make up. Take interest in various cute DIY projects to up your wardrobe and style or make something nice for the ‘guy’.
This of course doesn’t mean you have to give up your love for action movies or video games. You simply need to plunge into excitement of the best of both sexes.
5. Let him breathe in your air
If your personal best scent has been ‘you’, change to something sweet and naughty. A nice smell will capture his attention and make him feel attracted towards you. So, splash on some feminine smelling perfume or an intoxicating scented oil and get ready to serenade his senses.
6. Wrap into feminism
There’s nothing wrong in your tee and jeans. Yes they are comfortable and yes you don’t have live by the social norms of what a girl should wear because you are and empowered woman. But the only problem is that the T-shirt you usually don gives your crush all the wrong ‘feels’…. Instead of locking his eyes on you he gives you a high five.
So, if you want him to drop the title, twerk your wardrobe a bit. Wear a skinny jeans to show off your curves and opt for a more feminine top or blouses. A dress or a skirt would be great too given you are comfortable in them or else those can follow in time.
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7. Paint his face green
Flirt a bit but with some other guy in your group. Talk a little sensuously or about love and such topics too. Let your crush heed to the changes in you and get a little jealous. When he will feel the jealousy sinking in, that is when he will begin seeing you as his romantic option. You don’t need to be too obvious or talk dirty, but just the right amount flirtation to let the guy(s) notice you are also one of the same species which they so vigilantly look out for (read: ogle at).
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8. Let your moves make a move
Offer to go to a night club or if there’s a party you all are invited to, grab the chance to show off your skills as a dancer. Again, you don’t have to establish yourself as the next item girl. Just sway and swing along the rhythm and let him get caught up on your smooth movements. That will the last nail to hammer in to get your crush’s attention and establish you as his probable love interest.
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