11 Struggles You Face When You Are Often Mistaken for Flirting

Flirting is an art, they say. Do it right, and you may win the heart of a person you like, but get it wrong and be sure that the same person will always have an important meeting each time you call him/her to get a cup of coffee.

So, when such a rare and rather desired art is your second nature, you, of course, have a reason to rejoice.

But often, when you are almost unaware you are even attempting to flirt but are only being friendly, it gets too annoying for you when blamed for being flirtatious! And here are those flirting mistakes that are counted really big.

#1 It’s Just a Sweet Compliment From Your Side but….

They kind of start making an image of yours that might not always be negative, but it’s seen as flirtatious. Telling them the color of the shirt is nice? What a sin! You are definitely hitting on them! A compliment can mean something else, is it even fair? 

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There are some flirting tips that we can give, but here you may be mistaken for flirting.

Check More: 11 Disasters Shy People Call Flirting

#2 You Are Often Being Mistaken About Your Feelings

You’re a jolly person and love all that’s happening around you. You laugh/smile? Yes, you do! Wearing your biggest smile all the time means you are being over-friendly. 

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Oops, it’s annoying for people to think this way. 

#3 They Have Their Mindset About You. Who Cares!

Wait a minute, what would you say if I giggled like a kitten? Am I too easy to get? You think it’s going to be that easy? Wait a minute, no Mate.

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#4 I Love You? Really? Why? Huffff

Saying or Listening to an I love You isn’t just about sexual or intimate things anymore. You feel like I love You as a way to express your emotions, not just sensual stuff. You love to express your feelings, and that’s it. 

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#5 You Are Too Good at Flirting. How Come You’re Single?

Really, is it even a valid question? Are my flirting skills solely for getting a partner? Don’t worry. You’ll get the answer in tomorrow’s newspaper. I’m single because I don’t need tips to flirt and I know how to take compliments. Fine now? 

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Read More: 10 Dating Tips Anyone Who Is A Single Must Make Use Of

#6 Is Expressing a Sin? Am I a Sinner?

Are you often mistaken for being out there in terms of your loud and clear emotions? Like introverts love to be quiet and it’s OKAY, extroverts can also be loud and out there in terms of what they feel in a very healthy way. 

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This one may vary person-to-person. As a thumb rule, you should refrain from flirting with anyone when you’re in a relationship, if you want to keep it safe.

#7 Judgments….

Can’t help this one, right? 

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There may be a good chance that you like to flirt with people, in general. But, that’s only going to lead you into trouble. People are going to judge you, and whatnot.

#8 They Will Judge You, No Matter What

Not smiling, turning away, and putting on earphones makes you come out as rude? Is it? 

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Also Read: How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

#9 More Judgements…

That explanation every time. You constantly find yourself saying, ‘I was just being nice to you.’

#10 You Feel It’s Fine to Stay Away From Some People in Your Life

And such situations will eventually drive you away from most of the people you spend your time with. For those of you who don’t know you, it may be fine, but people who know your personality and they are still judging you, it’s disappointing. 

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#11 An Idea

And you must probably print ‘I wasn’t flirting’ on your tee, given the times you have to say it in a day. Or.. 

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Maybe you should get a tattoo on your forehead that you’re just being playful and not flirting with anyone.

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