{"id":4819,"date":"2016-01-06T11:23:54","date_gmt":"2016-01-06T05:53:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/?p=4819"},"modified":"2021-10-12T05:27:54","modified_gmt":"2021-10-12T05:27:54","slug":"things-you-should-refrain-from-saying-when-you-are-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/things-you-should-refrain-from-saying-when-you-are-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Things You Should Refrain From Saying When You Are Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4824 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/1460029_10152035297334044_1849721497_n.jpg?resize=638%2C960\" alt=\"Meet Mitchelle Rozario Jansen\" width=\"638\" height=\"960\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First dates are always a junction of mixed feelings. At one point you\u2019d be very excited and paranoid the very next moment about <\/span><b>what not to do on a first date. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, more than you should be worrying about what would make your date feel good, be equally aware of what can make your date regret going out with you. More than anything else, the words you choose to speak should be filtered. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conversation is the key to any good relationship. It can spark something beautiful. That\u2019s why talking is great, but if you don\u2019t know where to stop, it could cause trouble.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s a bunch of things you should absolutely refrain from saying when you\u2019re dating someone.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Here are your <\/span><b>tips for a successful first date <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"dos-and-donts-first-date\">Dos and don&#8217;ts first date.<\/h2>\n<h3 id=\"1-go-prepared-for-this-trick-question-that-can-be-the-game-changer\"><b><\/b>#1 Go Prepared For This Trick Question That Can Be The Game Changer!<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAm I looking fat?\u201d is a trick question, boys. If you think answering truthfully will get you brownie points, you\u2019re highly delusional. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, she does not look fat, she looks beautiful and that\u2019s how you survive. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is one of the<\/span><b> dating mistakes men make <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and wonder why she isn&#8217;t picking my call.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4820 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Youve-got-fat-gif.gif?resize=480%2C270\" alt=\"dating mistakes men make\" width=\"480\" height=\"270\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"2-you-cant-be-saying-no\"><b><\/b>#2 You Can\u2019t Be Saying NO!<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No is a very strong word. Try to avoid it as much as you can. You can find a better way to say it. Like, \u201cI\u2019d love to but maybe some other time,\u201d or \u201cMaybe we should try the other Chinese restaurant this time.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Related Article<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/question-to-ask-on-first-date\/\">Question to Ask on First Date<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This shows that you acknowledge what your partner has to say, but you have your own opinions as well. It will help you build a good positive relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4821 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/no-gif.gif?resize=500%2C282\" alt=\"dos and donts first date\" width=\"500\" height=\"282\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"3-things-to-never-say-on-a-first-date-your-ex-for-sure\"><b><\/b>#3 Things To Never Say On A First Date? Your Ex For Sure!<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re really adventurous if you feel the need to remind your date how great your EX was. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She\u2019d be like, you should have gone out with her instead. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes it\u2019s best to let bygones be bygones and to look at your new relationship from a fresh perspective.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every time you are tempted to bring your ex in the conversation, here\u2019s a #ProTip \u2013 Abort mission. When they ask<\/span><b> topics to avoid on first date, <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the one that tops the list is EX.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4822 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/tumblr_m34lgjVXw11qdwpo5o2_500.gif?resize=500%2C281\" alt=\"topics to avoid on first date\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"4-did-you-look-at-him\">#4 Did You Look At Him?<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, she did, but when you point it out, you\u2019re in for a lot of trouble<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This is one of the <\/span><b>things to avoid on first date<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> even if you do notice. Remember, it\u2019s your first date guys, no commitments from both ends. Have your options open (wink).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4823 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/did-he-just-say-that.gif?resize=500%2C250\" alt=\"things to avoid on first date\" width=\"500\" height=\"250\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Read More<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/first-date-outfit-ideas\/\">Outfits for Casual Date to First Date Outfit Ideas<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Though these tips have to do a lot with men saying the wrong things, there are some things that women should avoid too. For instance:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Are you really wearing that shirt?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Lose the hat.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>What sort of friends do you have?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>I really don\u2019t get football.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>What\u2019s a bro code?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid these judgmental lines and believe me, you will be a blessed woman!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dating isn\u2019t an easy job. It takes effort and planning and strategy. You have to tread on thin ice. So watch what you say, and hopefully, these tips have enlightened you a little bit on how to date a girl and the things you must avoid saying.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have a few lines to add to this list, feel free to write in the comments below to enlighten young girls and boys about <\/span><b>what not to do on a first date.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Download the\u00a0<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><b>TrulyMadly<\/b><\/a><b>\u00a0Dating App for\u00a0<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/TRULYM\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><b>Android and iOS<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"First dates are always a junction of mixed feelings. 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