{"id":4289,"date":"2015-09-02T15:06:56","date_gmt":"2015-09-02T09:36:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/?p=4289"},"modified":"2021-08-19T12:58:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-19T12:58:48","slug":"a-dummies-guide-to-french-kissing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/a-dummies-guide-to-french-kissing\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Do French Kiss for Beginners &#8211; Step by Step Guide"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8908\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ira-trivedi.jpg?resize=1200%2C675&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"ira-trivedi\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ira-trivedi.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ira-trivedi.jpg?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ira-trivedi.jpg?resize=1024%2C576&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ira-trivedi.jpg?resize=768%2C432&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ira-trivedi.jpg?resize=380%2C214&amp;ssl=1 380w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ira-trivedi.jpg?resize=800%2C450&amp;ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ira-trivedi.jpg?resize=1160%2C653&amp;ssl=1 1160w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ira Trivedi is a best-selling author of India in Love. When not contemplating modern love, she can be found practicing yoga at Namami Yoga.\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>This article is written as part of a series called A Dummie&#8217;s Guide to Dating\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"how-to-do-french-kiss-for-beginners\"><em><b>&#8211; how to do french kiss for beginners<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/em><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The movies make it seem like the easiest and most natural thing in the world. The reality is a little different. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing is an art form and like any other art form, it must be studied and practiced. It might take some time or even years, to get this art form perfected.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Art form aside, kissing is also important because a first kiss usually marks the end of dating and the beginning of a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How can you make that first kiss, that first impression, something to remember?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"oral-hygiene\"><b>\u2013 Oral hygiene<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This sounds like a banal and obvious point, but alas, I only wish it were. I strongly urge all dating boys and girls in anticipation of their first kiss to carry chewing gum, mints (strong ones, not Mentos) or any other convenient forms of mouth fresheners with you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Indian food has a lot of onion and garlic, and a stinky kiss is no way to start a relationship. Along with oral hygiene, don&#8217;t forget lip hygiene. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is no fun kissing dry, chapped, or cracked lips. Carrying a tube of Vaseline is not effeminate; on the other hand, it&#8217;s a good signal. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It makes her think that you&#8217;re serious about your lips, the kiss, and her.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"let-her-kiss-you-first-or-maybe-you-can-kiss-her-first-too\"><b>\u2013 Let her kiss you first or maybe you can kiss her first too<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I strongly believe that the girls should initiate the first kiss, but there\u2019s no such written rule. Boys assume that girls are shy and so often make the first move. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me tell you, if she really likes you, she won\u2019t mind making the first move.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A pointer for the girls here. DON&#8217;T be PRUDE. It is very 1975. If you like him and feel that a relationship is possible, that first kiss will mark your entry into the relationship zone, unless you want to be stuck in dating limbo forever. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you make the first move, he won&#8217;t think that you have a loose character (and if he does think that, dump him right away). <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He will instead admire your confidence. He will also know who controls the pace of the relationship. Here is <strong>step by step how to french kiss<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Check More<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/the-types-of-frogs-you-have-to-kiss-before-you-find-your-prince\/\">The Types Of Frogs You Have To Kiss Before You Find Your Prince<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"make-it-soft\"><b>\u2013 Make it soft<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is more for boys than for girls. Don&#8217;t throw yourself at her, and DON&#8217;T act desperate by getting too intense too fast. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be slow, be gentle, and be gentle. Start slow and soft and let the kiss grow over time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"to-close-or-not-to-close-your-eyes\"><b>\u2013 To close or not to close your eyes?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is weird to have your eyes open. Close your eyes. The most beautiful things are not to be seen with the eyes but felt by the heart.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"practice-makes-perfect\"><b>-Practice makes perfect.<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do what it takes to get the technique down like watching videos if you want. It will help a lot.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"when-it-comes-to-the-tongue\"><b>-When it comes to the tongue<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep it in your mouth. Little butterfly touches, say more than an anaconda invading alien territory, on the tongue note. Make an impact with your subtlety, not with your saliva.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"to-tilt-or-not-to-tilt\"><b>-To tilt or not to tilt?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is not something that one thinks about, but it can lead to a disastrous and embarrassing head-on collision. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During the lift-off process, take a second to gauge which way his\/her head is tilting so you can adjust yours accordingly.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"you-dont-kiss-with-just-the-lips\"><b>-You don&#8217;t kiss with just the lips.<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You kiss with your whole body. Every inch of you should be involved in that kiss, especially your hands. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t just think about the 2B&#8217;s (boobs and butt) doing something creative. Stroke her hair, play with her ear lobes, touch her neck, and things like that.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"keep-him-her-wanting-more\"><b>-Keep him\/her wanting more.<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stop just as it gets good. She\/he will be pining for more.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"be-mindful\"><strong>&#8211; Be mindful<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enjoy every moment of it instead of focusing on being scared or nervous or thinking of what more you can do to get into her pants. Here we sum up the <strong>guide to french kissing<\/strong>, let us know how you liked this blog.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s easy to UnSingle when you have TrulyMadly, India\u2019s best dating app. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Download the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">TrulyMadly<\/a>\u00a0Dating App for\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/TRULYM\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Android and iOS<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"&nbsp; Ira Trivedi is a best-selling author of India in Love. When not contemplating modern love, she can&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6990,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1861],"tags":[2110,2112,2111],"featured_image_src":{"landsacpe":["https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/blog-138-768x445.jpg",768,445,true],"list":["https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/blog-138-463x348.jpg",463,348,true],"medium":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/blog-138.jpg?fit=300%2C300&ssl=1",300,300,true],"full":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/blog-138.jpg?fit=768%2C768&ssl=1",768,768,false]},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/blog-138.jpg?fit=768%2C768&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4289"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4289"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4289\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8909,"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4289\/revisions\/8909"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6990"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4289"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4289"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4289"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}