{"id":2928,"date":"2015-04-27T11:33:40","date_gmt":"2015-04-27T06:03:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/?p=2928"},"modified":"2021-10-18T05:14:21","modified_gmt":"2021-10-18T05:14:21","slug":"6-traits-in-you-that-get-you-dumped","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/6-traits-in-you-that-get-you-dumped\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Traits in You That Get You Dumped"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of you may wonder why it is that you get dumped all the time. It can\u2019t be true that you are not good enough for anyone. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then what is the issue? Here are some reasons you are<\/span><b> getting dumped by someone you love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> every single time when you just begin to think, \u2018this is it.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"1-trying-to-be-someone-you-are-not\">#1 Trying to be someone you are not.<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you pull on a fake date face and try to be someone better than what you think you actually are, then things get tipsy. You are only juggling between your real self and your acquired alter ego. None of those does justice to your persona, and your date is left wondering who you really are. Furthermore, you will get some obvious <strong>signs you are about to get dumped<\/strong> as soon as your partner sees your real face.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2930\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/traits-1-salaam-namaste-preity-saif-crying-watching-tv-theatre-emotional.gif?resize=506%2C411\" alt=\"Getting Dumped by Someone You Love\" width=\"506\" height=\"411\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"https:\/\/33.media.tumblr.com\/0102218746c73b91613c15c34a08dea2\/tumblr_mrorm1uLww1scjyi8o6_250.gif\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Image source<\/a>\/ Yash Raj Films<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Check More<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/how-to-get-over-a-breakup\/\">How To Get Over A Breakup \u2013 Guide To Moving On<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"2-being-too-emotional-and-needy-and-not-taking-any-responsibility-for-it\">#2 Being too emotional and needy and not taking any responsibility for it.<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you have \u2018needy\u2019 issues where you constantly want to be with your bae and texting and calling them too much, it\u2019s good to get attached to someone, but neediness is a big turn-off for anyone. Such an emotionally needy attitude makes your partner pity you, not love, and eventually, that pity turns into frustration.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-2931 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/traits-2-katrina-ranbir-ajab-prem-ki-gazab-kahani-style-fake-shirtless-confused-e1429101133494.jpg?resize=516%2C233\" alt=\"traits-2-katrina-ranbir-ajab-prem-ki-gazab-kahani-style-fake-shirtless-confused-e1429101133494\" width=\"516\" height=\"233\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"http:\/\/katrinakaifonline.net\/gallery\/albums\/Movies\/APKGK\/DVD%20Screencaps\/Ajab_Prem_Ki_Ghazab_Kahani_with_Katrina_Kaif_and_Ranbir_Kapoor_DVD_Screencaps2011-02-15-09h05m36s95.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Image source<\/a>\/ Shemaroo- UTV Motion Pictures<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"3-restricting-yourself-indoors-and-insisting-on-isolation\">#3 Restricting yourself indoors and insisting on isolation.<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never hanging out with your friends or doing any fun outdoor activity and confining yourselves indoors every single time for a \u201cpeaceful us-time\u201d no way helps to keep you \u2018us\u2019 for a long time. It only makes your relationship dull and your partner lonely, despite you being there. Now can that be a good sign?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-2929 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/srk-kareena-ra-one-traits-3-confused-alone-together-coffee-home-couple-love.jpg?resize=511%2C340\" alt=\"srk-kareena-ra-one-traits-3-confused-alone-together-coffee-home-couple-love\" width=\"511\" height=\"340\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.hellobollywood.com.au\/wp-content\/gallery\/all-about-ra-one\/sbm-3.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Image source<\/a>\/\u00a0Eros International Ltd.-\u00a0Red Chillies Entertainment<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"4-refusing-to-acknowledge-your-partners-emotions-labeling-them-as-being-unreasonable\">#4 Refusing to acknowledge your partner\u2019s emotions, labeling them as being unreasonable.<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are able to acknowledge your partner\u2019s emotions &amp; feelings, this can actually benefit your relationship. But not being a support pillar and ridiculing them or not listening to their story is a sure road to singledom again. Failing in reading your partner\u2019s mind is a sign you are about to get dumped.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img class=\"size-full wp-image-2932 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/traits-4-anushka-annoyed-pissed-ranveer-laies-vs-ricky-bahl.gif?w=1200\" alt=\"traits-4-anushka-annoyed-pissed-ranveer-laies-vs-ricky-bahl\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><span style=\"color: #999999;\">Yash Raj Films<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"5-putting-no-real-effort-into-the-relationship\">#5 Putting no real effort into the relationship.<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another sign you are <strong>getting dumped by someone you love<\/strong> is when you are not active in a relationship as much as your partner is. You can\u2019t go on taking for granted your partner\u2019s efforts of keeping you together or doing sweet things for you because it\u2019s natural. You need to reciprocate too. And if you don\u2019t, well, it\u2019s only time they recognize you don\u2019t care enough and send you their final goodbye card.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-2933 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/traits-5-tip-11-salman-couple-fight-sad-date-run-jai-ho1.gif?resize=518%2C291\" alt=\"traits-5-tip-11-salman-couple-fight-sad-date-run-jai-ho1\" width=\"518\" height=\"291\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><span style=\"color: #999999;\">Eros International<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Read Also<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/5-bollywood-tips-on-how-to-move-on-from-your-breakup\/\">5 Bollywood Tips On How To Move On From Your Breakup<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"6-and-when-you-let-your-true-and-real-self-go\">#6 And when you let your true and real self go.<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the biggest reasons for you <strong>getting dumped by someone you love<\/strong> is when you stop loving yourself &amp; when you let your real self go. So never quit making yourself your priority as it\u2019s a trait people out there love.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019ve never before paid attention to <\/span><b>signs you are about to get dumped<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, here are some to read and think about.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-2934 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/traits-6-morning-cup-of-tea-coffee-cuppa-couple-fight-deepika-john-abraham-desi-boyz.gif?resize=496%2C232\" alt=\"traits-6-morning-cup-of-tea-coffee-cuppa-couple-fight-deepika-john-abraham-desi-boyz\" width=\"496\" height=\"232\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"https:\/\/38.media.tumblr.com\/ce0c73acc50faf6d08c02af105e26d14\/tumblr_ml240gJ40E1s6pukzo1_250.gif\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Image source<\/a>\/\u00a0Eros International\/ <a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.fashionlady.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/deepika-ranbir.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Featured Image Source<\/a>\u00a0:fashionlady.in<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Meet interesting and like minded verified singles in your city on India\u2019s best dating and matchmaking app.<\/p>\n<p>Download TrulyMadly app on <a href=\"https:\/\/play.google.com\/store\/apps\/details?id=com.trulymadly.android.app\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Android<\/a>\u00a0or <a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/in\/app\/trulymadly\/id964395424?mt=8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Apple\u00a0iPhone<\/a>\u00a0or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.windowsphone.com\/en-in\/store\/app\/trulymadly\/45a2c781-52c3-4f72-a16d-79210a16cc68\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Windows<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Some of you may wonder why it is that you get dumped all the time. 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