{"id":101,"date":"2014-02-21T09:01:24","date_gmt":"2014-02-21T09:01:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/?p=101"},"modified":"2021-03-12T06:58:40","modified_gmt":"2021-03-12T06:58:40","slug":"watch-out-your-screen-your-safety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/watch-out-your-screen-your-safety\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Screen &#8211; Your Safety"},"content":{"rendered":"<p dir=\"ltr\">The internet is the one means of transportation that requires no passport, tickets or permits.\u00a0This makes it absolutely crucial to be clear about the identity of the person behind the other screen. Keeping your safety in mind, we formulated the \u00a0fabulous Trust Score. But that\u2019s not where it all ends. The ball is in your court once you start reaching out to prospective partners and it never hurts to be cautious.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Our research has taught us a couple of <em>mantras<\/em> that we chant whenever we\u2019re online. And since we want the best for you, here they are! Keep these in mind and your safety net shall remain secure in the tumultuous sea of love over the world wide web.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>1. Take your time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We know how exciting it is to see someone who looks just like Prince Charming, but hold on, don\u2019t rush into anything before they have a good Trust Score and you can tick everything on your <a title=\"Compatibility\" href=\"https:\/\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/nr504qN6R_qVC3w-PnJRq8papp_cNxc5NfU-ysz--7D1nu7tvTHaR2NBswyyC_NMcMCBp2ingNwrvndQAFn0nZoUVwZaxUC9dgmpnCnHCOSdIhfApNvkWjf_yg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">checklist<\/a>. Steer clear of impulsive late night dates, exchanging pictures or dramatic proclamations of love till you\u2019re absolutely sure. Timing is key! Someone very wise once said that love is circumstantial, so you don\u2019t want to hit \u2018Go\u2019 before everything is aligned, do you?<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>2. Don\u2019t be too quick to share.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">You\u2019ve provided your contact details for verification and they aren\u2019t available to anyone who views your profile. We do this to make sure you aren\u2019t bombarded with unwanted attention. So help us out here and be prudent while sharing your info. Avoid direct emails while starting off since that\u2019s what the internal messaging system is for, specially if you are speaking to a number of people at the same time. Be sure to keep your personal email address\/phone number private till you\u2019re ready to take it offline.Till then, work along the trust meter and you\u2019ll be fine.<\/p>\n<p>P.S. Don\u2019t share your TrulyMadly password with anyone. This is all about your exclusive right to choice, don\u2019t dilute it by getting family members and agents involved.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Screen-Shot-2014-02-21-at-2.33.25-pm.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-107\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Screen-Shot-2014-02-21-at-2.33.25-pm.png?resize=400%2C282\" alt=\"Screen Shot 2014-02-21 at 2.33.25 pm\" width=\"400\" height=\"282\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Screen-Shot-2014-02-21-at-2.33.25-pm.png?w=400&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Screen-Shot-2014-02-21-at-2.33.25-pm.png?resize=300%2C212&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/trulymadly.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Screen-Shot-2014-02-21-at-2.33.25-pm.png?resize=367%2C259&amp;ssl=1 367w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>3. Offline etiquette<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So you\u2019re finally meeting the lovely lady who\u2019s been on your mind ever since you interacted for the first time. Trust us, you want this to be perfect! Most people don\u2019t give second chances when it comes to a first date, so make the most of it. Don\u2019t go all gung-ho and set up a private dinner for two. Keep the location public and neutral. This will set you both at ease and relax the environment a little bit. Ladies, be vocal about your comfort zone. He can\u2019t read your mind (yet) so if you like a bistro, tell him!<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">We promise to tell you more about the best ways to rock a first date, but for now- let go of all fake accents, body odour, comparing your date to your ex and just focus on reflecting your personality the way it is.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Tell your friends!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">There\u2019s safety in numbers. Letting your friends know about your plans to take things forward with someone you met online would show you opinions that aren\u2019t as lovestruck as yours. This way, you can even slowly involve your newfound partner into your life instead of operating in isolation and that gets you one step closer to seeing how this person fits in your circle. Win-win.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>5. Trust your instincts<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">If your heart and mind are in conflict about someone, don\u2019t ignore it. Address the issue right away. Your own gut is the best judge of character and giving it weight is something we fully support. When something clicks, give it a shot. Oh, and if someone seems out of tune with expectations, move on. 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